I know people do it all the time. I am not sure my wife and I will stay married and it feels like the scariest thing I can imagine. We’ve had some rough times. I agreed to try again. I want to live together through the duration of our lease and make a thoughtful decision about living separate that gives us both time to find new living arrangements and give notice on our lease. At a minimum, we will continue our current living situation for at least 6 more months. I also want her to have some time to try to get stable. That included at least part time work, but she has taken and been fired from two jobs. I am seeing less progress in self sufficiency than I hoped for (there has been progress so I may just be unrealistic). Most days I am fine with the ambiguity, but sometimes when I am stressed, the idea of figuring out how to split seems like the scariest thing in the world. I think work stress triggered it. I just want a calm and happy life. I probably wouldn’t even couple back up again. I just want to do what I want to do. I am tired. I feel sort of trapped. I am sure it’s normal considering the ambiguity. I will probably just delete this. I just feel panicked and I am also having tons of work stress + pms.